…who cares? No really, who cares?
I think it’s a holiday invented by a random card making business to boost their sales after some moron messed up a whole bunch of cards in the factory. (ok, not really but what the hey?)
Well,,,I’m over this lovey-dovey stuff,,, if there’s so much love being shared…why is it only recognized on a specific day?
- Because a bloody calendar told you to celebrate?
- Because the internet is raving all about Valentines?
- Because every single person on social media is talking about it?
- Because the stores sell couple-y things in red and white heart symbols?
- Because that’s the norm?
If any of the above are your go-to reasons…then please by all means necessary, I hope you know that you’re a douche.
Why do people put importance in one day of the year yet there’s 364 more years on the damn calendar? and if it’s a leap year,,,they’re 365.
I’m not saying that you can’t celebrate Valentine’s day. Just make sure you know the real reason behind telling your other halves “happy valentines”. Make sure, it’s your own reason or your own take on valentines and what they mean to you. Don’t Google “How to tell them how much they mean to me”…that’s just sad.
I didn’t do it…I didn’t kill cupid. :)
Here’s what I
want would like (because “want” sounds too demanding):
(I have a dream,,,that one day…)
~I want to be loved just as I would love.
~I want to be cherished every single day of the year just because you consider me special because I’ll be damned if that’s exactly how I would treat my other half.
~“I love you” shouldn’t be thrown around only on February 14th,,,but every single morning we wake up together because you never know whether you’ll see your other half again.
~I want to be treated like I matter. It doesn’t have to be through fancy dinners and shindigs like that,,but really,,,just treat me the way your mama brought you up.
~Be a gentleman and I in turn will be the lady that you saw in me that very first day.
~Don’t get mad at me and go quiet,,,talk to me so we can solve whatever issues we have. Nobody’s perfect.
~My heart has been through more than enough already,,,I know,,,I’m not even 25 yet and here I am talking about matters of the heart. I just want to find love rather than die old miserable and alone(yeah,,,that’s another one of my outrageous fears)
~I’m just another girl living in a fantasy world where there’ll always be a prince charming to come to my rescue and carry me off on his chariot(Don’t give me that look. We all read Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty and Snow White.)
~I’m all for putting myself out there for the world to scrutinize and for the male species to discover who I am,,,but then again, I’m waiting for the one that’ll discover the diamond in the rough(yes,,,I’m a diamond,,,we all are)
~For my other half to be as good with my family as I shall hope to be with his. That he’ll try, hard as it might be, to form good relations with them because they’re important to me.
There’s so much more i have to add to this list but my mind’s telling me not to do it here,,,so I’ll listen to my conscience for once.
I had this stuff on my mind and I had to let it out somehow.
Shooooot. I’ve never done this but here goes….
I’ve just closed a chapter in my life that I honestly should be leaving wide-fucking-open(excuse my French…wait,,,isn’t Russians and Germans that curse like sailors though? So it should be “Excuse my Russian/German?) but then again,,,we live and we learn through mistakes, yeah? Had the chance, blew it. Let’s get on with this growing up struggle that is life.
I.o.n my mother’s advice is pure gold. I honestly don’t know how I get through some things without this lovely person here.
Cherish the ones that you love,,,grudges are for the weak.
Say what you want to when you have the chance. Never know what you have till it’s gone.
Cheers lovers of life,,
Happy Valentines in advance. :*
Be cool people until next time.